Current Coaching Offerings

Have you ‘wiped out’ on the gnarly wave of a narcissistically abusive or otherwise toxic relationship? 

If you don’t explore what that painful partnership was meant to teach you and heal at the core, there’s a significant risk you’ll end up in a similar relationship, or a string of them.

Some narcissist magnets even find themselves surrounded by controlling, manipulative and abusive people in every area of their lives.

I’ve created several support options to help you stop reacting to, being controlled by, and attracting more toxic people – so you can be free from abuse forever … and create unshakable self-worth.

If you’re ready to learn how to manifest relationships that you deserve – ones that help you feel loved, respected and valued – keep reading.  

*** In addition to the packages listed here, I also help clients manifest their biggest desires and dreams. Contact me for details. ***

Nancy Koenig Energy Healer Life Coach Transformational Healing
Nancy Koenig Energy Healer BioEnergetic Synchronization Technique (B.E.S.T.)

Option 1: Bodysurf

What It Is:

Bodysurf is a great entry point for those who are treading the treacherous waters of an abusive relationship (past or present) – or who want a support option that bypasses the conscious mind and goes directly to the root of the problem. 

In this work together, we will not be focusing on the details of what you’re experiencing or have experienced in the past. In fact, you won’t need to talk much at all during the sessions. There is no need to relive painful memories and traumas to release them; they are stored in the body, and that’s where the “let-go” process occurs.

We’ll achieve this emotional release through BioEnergetic Synchronization Technique (B.E.S.T.), a powerful, proven method with a track record of nearly 50 years of success.  We will use the technique to release subconscious ‘blocks’ – which are really just subconscious “interference” where unresolved emotions are energetically stuck in the body.  Once these are released, the body can self-heal (as it is designed).

The process will also help calm the waters of your intense emotions and release trauma and the subconscious patterns that have magnetized and bound you to narcissists and other toxic people, as well as situations and environments that don’t serve you.

How It Works:

Whether in-person or through Zoom video call, we will be working directly with the energy currents in your body.  (Yes, this kind of energetic work is just as effective remotely!) 

Because the B.E.S.T. process itself restores the body’s innate ability to heal itself (physically and emotionally), you’ll begin to see results relatively quickly (in most cases).  How long the healing process takes for each person is highly individual.

The important piece to remember is that, while other techniques treat the “symptoms” of narcissistic abuse and trauma bonding (and the multitude of impacts – both emotional and physical that go along with that), B.E.S.T. actually eradicates the root cause.

In my 20+ years of coaching and crisis work (specializing in narcissistic abuse), I’ve never seen a modality work this quickly to help you stop the obsessive thought loop, release painful emotions and trauma, and stop you reacting to, being controlled by, and attracting toxic people.

What’s Included: 

  • One (1) 50-minute initial consultation, including B.E.S.T. (BioEnergetic Synchronization Technique) session

  • Three (3) additional 45-minute B.E.S.T. sessions 

Bodysurf Investment: $750 

Nancy Koenig Energy Healer BioEnergetic Synchronization Technique (B.E.S.T.)
Nancy Koenig Life Coaching Narcissistic Abuse Toxic People Patterns

Option 2: Surf’s Up

What It Is:

Surf’s Up is a 30 Day 1:1 Relationship Ride makeover to transform one specific pattern that has attracted and kept you bound to narcissists and other toxic people)

Sometimes, focusing intensively on just one change can be exactly what you need to get the entire wave of transformation rolling. In Surf’s Up, our work together will be laser-focused on one pattern you’d like to release, or one thing you’d like to manifest. 

Many empaths and those with people-pleasing tendencies have been conditioned to put others first, sometimes at our own expense. The more patterns of codependency we possess and the more deeply ingrained they are, the more likely we will continue to attract and stay with partners that are controlling, manipulative and abusive. 

In Surf’s Up, you’ll pick one wave of change and learn to surf it like a pro, so you can step more fully into your power in your relationships and life. 

What’s Included: 

  • We’ll start with a 1:1 Surf Pro Half Day, where we’ll release an unwanted pattern or block from the roots – and replace it with a brand new way of showing up in the world – one that will repel narcissists and attract people who will treat you with the respect and love you crave and deserve. 

  • 30 days of direct access to me via private messaging to ask questions and receive support while integrating this new way of being.  

  • 30 minute debrief at the end of the month, where I’ll teach you how to permanently anchor this new version of yourself. 

Some ideas for focus if you’re not sure exactly what you want to release and/or create:

  • Setting healthy boundaries (so you don’t feel taken advantage of any longer)

  • Saying no without feeling guilty

  • Communicating assertively (speak up for yourself, confidently go after that raise, express your needs in a positive way)

  • Taking complete control of your emotions

  • Responding instead of reacting so you can take measured control of triggering situations

  • Creating time for self-care and enjoyment instead of always putting others needs first

  • Letting go of worrying what others think of you 

  • Stop defending and explaining yourself

  • Getting to know what your preferences and desires 

  • Creating the relationship of your dreams

Surf’s Up Investment:

$3000 paid-in-full (payment plan available)

Nancy Koenig Life Coaching Narcissistic Abuse Toxic People Patterns
Nancy Koenig Mentoring Trauma Healing

Option 3: HANG TEN

What It Is:

Hang Ten is a 10-week 1:1 coaching/mentoring program to free yourself from narcissistic and toxic relationships, and use past experiences of abuse as springboards to the relationships and life you desire.

When people begin dating again after an experience of narcissistic abuse or other toxic relationships, they often attract the same personality type. And sometimes, they’re so scared of repeating the painful patterns, they choose not to date at all.

In Hang Ten, our work together will be educational and empowering.

We’ll identify your top three traits of codependency that attract narcissists and other toxic people and release any emotional congestion tying you to the past.  

Then, we’ll create a customized program to help you replace those traits and habits with empowering ones and begin to rebuild your confidence, so you can choose to date again without fear of losing yourself in your next relationship.

What’s Included:

  • Five (biweekly) 1:1 Coaching/Mentoring Sessions where you’ll begin to release any lingering shame, regret and emotional congestion related to your past, get clear about what you want in a relationship and beyond and lay out a plan to begin attracting that.

  • Monthly empowerment, and manifestation techniques are customized to the areas you most want to transform. These include my Emotional Congestion Clear™ modality, B.E.S.T. (BioEnergetic Synchronization Technique), EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), and other life-enhancing tools.

  • Direct access via private messaging (support for questions, confidence boosts and integration between sessions) 

Hang Ten Is For You If:

You have already left a narcissistically abusive or otherwise toxic relationship and are ready to do whatever it takes to ensure you’ll never again wipe out on waves of manipulation, abuse, control, gaslighting and never-ending drama, or subject yourself to any more emotional anguish and trauma. 

You’re ready to let go of any and all identification with having been a victim in your relationships and life. You’re ready to surf life in a more enjoyable way and transform into the empowered Goddess you came here to be! 

We can transform three areas that have attracted narcissists and other toxic people and get you cruising with much greater confidence and sense of self-worth. 

Investment:

$7000 paid-in-full (payment plan available) 

Nancy Koenig Mentoring Trauma Healing

Option 4: THE IMPACT ZONE

What It Is:

The Impact Zone is a 9 months 1:1 coaching/mentoring package to permanently stop attracting narcissists and other toxic people, so you can create the relationship and life you’ve always wanted)

In The Impact Zone, our work together will be liberating, empowering and deeply transformational. 

We’ll explore all the patterns that have led to tolerating abusive and unfulfilling relationships. Then you’ll shatter those patterns, rebuild your confidence and connect with a sense of unshakable self-worth.

You’ll learn how to stop beating yourself up and start treating yourself like a Goddess, so you can attract partners who will love, respect and honor you. 

You’ll never have to worry about attracting narcissists and other unhealthy partners again, and you’ll learn exactly how to create the type of relationship you’ve always wanted. Starting with the most important of all: the one you share with you! 

What’s Included: 

  • Bi-weekly 1:1 sessions where I’ll help you pinpoint and release the exact patterns of thinking, feeling and acting/reacting that have attracted narcissists and other toxic people like magnets. Then we’ll get to work on rebuilding your confidence, balance and self-worth.

  • The result? By the time we’ve finished with our 1:1 session, your self esteem will be higher than ever, self care will come naturally and it will be much easier to see and honor the red flags next time an unhealthy dating prospect or toxic situation comes along. When old triggers appear, you’ll surf them with ease. You’ll get clear on exactly what you want in future relationships of all types and begin creating the life you most desire. 

  • Monthly empowerment, and manifestation techniques are customized to the areas you most want to transform.

  • Direct access via private messaging (support for questions, confidence boosts and integration between sessions)

The Impact Zone is for you if you fit the criteria for Hang Ten – but want to go even deeper.

Impact Zone Investment:

$19,000 paid-in-full (payment plans available) 

Nancy Koenig Transformational Coaching Healing From Trauma and Abuse

Option 5: Drop In

Want to drop in for a one-time old-school phone session? Here’s your chance for a wild card! Time permitting, Nancy gives back by offering hourly sessions at discounted rates.

To qualify for one of these sessions, you will need to clarify exactly what you want to accomplish within this tightly focused container. This exercise alone can be transformational for those who have had challenges identifying and/or asking for what they have wanted in the past. 

I can’t guarantee availability, but I’ll do my best! 

Drop In Life Coaching With Nancy Koenig